πŸ€ Launching first in Hoboken Β· Jersey City Β· Weehawken

Amjour. The dating app built to
get you off the app.

amour + journΓ©e β€” love is a journey, one day at a time

No ghosting β€” going silent has consequences. No endless swiping β€” 7 likes a day, that's it. No faceless profiles, no pressure, no sharing your number before you're ready. Match, meet, and if it works out… we buy the wedding gift.

πŸ€ You're on the list. We launch when Hoboken hits critical mass β€” you'll be first to know.

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Every other app profits when you stay.

Swipe apps make money from your attention, so they're built to keep you swiping. We make money when dates actually happen β€” so everything here points at one thing: meeting a real person, nearby, who shows up.

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Ghosting costs points

Everyone has a Reliability Score. Read someone's message and vanish while staying active? Your score drops and you're shown less. Reply β€” or close things out kindly with one tap β€” and it climbs.

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Kind goodbyes, built in

Unmatching sends a respectful pre-written note instead of silence. "The match I'm looking for isn't here β€” I don't want to waste your time or mine. Best of luck." Closure, not a vanished profile.

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Lucky 7

Seven likes a day. Enough to be picky, never enough to binge. When you run out, the app tells you to go message a match β€” or better, meet one.

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Your map, your rules

Date only your side of the river. Choose exactly which towns β€” or whole states β€” can appear. Profiles from anywhere else never enter your deck, and spoofed or foreign accounts can't get in.

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No-pressure by design

No read receipts, no countdowns, no "she owes you a reply." Reminders are private. Go quiet and away mode kicks in automatically β€” absence is never ghosting.

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The We Met button

Confirmed real-world dates are the biggest boost your profile can get β€” and they unlock free rounds and desserts at partner spots around town.

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Faces, guaranteed

Every profile photo must show a face β€” AI-checked on upload, live-selfie verified. Sunsets and dog pics get their own section. You always know who you're talking to.

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Calls without numbers

Voice and video calls happen inside the app. Your phone number stays yours until you decide otherwise β€” vibe-check someone before the first date, safely.

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Ask them out properly

"Here's the spot β€” Thursday or Friday at 8?" One tap to confirm, no scheduling ping-pong. Bring a friend and make it a double date if that's more your speed.

What we will never sell you

  • Unlimited swipes
  • Paying to undo a pass
  • Hiding your Reliability Score
  • Boosting past better-behaved people
  • Your data, to anyone
  • πŸ’ Meet here. Marry. We buy the gift.

    Couples who meet on Amjour and tie the knot get a wedding gift from us and a spot in our Hall of Fame. We measure success by the people who leave.

    Own a bar, cafΓ© or restaurant in Hoboken?

    Our Date Deals send confirmed first dates to your tables β€” you fund a free round or dessert, we walk you two customers who were going out anyway. No upfront cost.

    Become a launch partner β†’