amour + journée — love is a journey, one day at a time
No ghosting — going silent has consequences. No endless swiping — 7 likes a day, that's it. No faceless profiles, no pressure, no sharing your number before you're ready. Match, meet, and if it works out… we'll send you a wedding gift.
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Swipe apps make money from your attention, so they're built to keep you swiping. We make money when dates actually happen — so everything here points at one thing: meeting a real person, nearby, who shows up.
Everyone has a Reliability Score. Read someone's message and vanish while staying active? Your score drops and you're shown less. Reply — or close things out kindly with one tap — and it climbs.
Unmatching sends a respectful pre-written note instead of silence. "The match I'm looking for isn't here — I don't want to waste your time or mine. Best of luck." Closure, not a vanished profile.
Seven likes a day. Enough to be picky, never enough to binge. When you run out, the app tells you to go message a match — or better, meet one.
Date only your side of the river. Choose exactly which towns — or whole states — can appear. Profiles from anywhere else never enter your deck, and spoofed or foreign accounts can't get in.
Height, distance, exercise habits, whatever — drag to rank the handful of things that actually matter to you. It never filters anyone out; it just puts closer matches first.
No read receipts, no countdowns, no "she owes you a reply." Reminders are private. Go quiet and away mode kicks in automatically — absence is never ghosting.
Confirmed real-world dates are the biggest boost your profile can get.
Every profile photo must show a face — automatically checked on upload. Sunsets and dog pics get their own section. You always know who you're talking to.
"Here's the spot — Thursday or Friday at 8?" One tap to confirm, no scheduling ping-pong.
Every member gets 3 invites to skip the line for friends — same waitlist rules apply, but no code hunting required.
Amjour opens access gradually so one side of the app doesn't flood out the other — that's part of why membership sometimes opens in waves instead of all at once.
Treat people with respect — no name-calling, body-shaming, or hate, ever. Report and block tools are on every profile and every chat, reviewed by a human within 24 hours.
Optional, $14.99/mo. Still never unlimited — even Club has a cap, on purpose. 21 likes a day instead of 7, 5 Head Starts a week instead of 1, and priority visibility. Everything on the free tier above stays free forever.
Being upfront about what's live today vs. what's still ahead — everything below is planned, not yet in the app.
A shared group chat so two matched couples can coordinate a double date together — built for real scheduling, not instant replies.
Coming soonVoice and video without ever sharing your number, vibe-check someone before meeting up.
Coming soonConfirmed first dates unlock a free round or dessert at partner venues near you.
Coming soonA live-selfie check matched against your profile photos, on top of the automatic face-detection already in place today.
Coming soonCouples who meet on Amjour and tie the knot get a wedding gift from us — reach out and let us know, this one's handled personally, not automated. We measure success by the people who leave.
We're building Date Deals — sending confirmed first dates to local venues in exchange for a small perk you fund, like a free round or dessert. Still early; if that sounds interesting for your spot, tell us and we'll reach out when it's ready.
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